Why I hate being a young mum

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Being a young mum sucks.

No, not because I miss out on partying with my friends. Or because I’ll probably never get to buy a house. Not even because at the age of 28 I have more bags under my eyes than a strand bags store. 

I hate being a young Mum because of other people. Yup, I know, how general can I be.


And I mean I love people, people are good mostly. But GOD sometimes people are jerks!

I have been told that “it must be hard as a single mum”, oh I’m not a single mum, “oh, and you’re still with the father!” What the actual fuck. And also, who cares?

I’ve been asked if I’m jealous of my peers. Are they jealous of me? “Nah, I mean cause they can do stuff!” Yup so can I! – an actual conversation I had with another parent.

“And where do you work”… “oh you have an actual job!” Prey tell, random judger… what is a real job.

“Do you feel like your kids are going to miss out?” On what? Their inheritance? I don’t get it, I’m a great mum.

I have even been told (by a non parent I should add) “nah but you’re not a real mum!” I mean, I’m the only mum my kids will even have so yeah I am pretty real

I mean, I could go on… but here’s the deal. I was 23 when I had my son. I am a great mum, I am not perfect you know, I’m a human and all. I’m 28 now. I have a 5 year old and a 1 year old. They, along with my hubby are my absolute world. 

Please, please don’t take the credit away from me because I decided to have kids at a younger age. It actually really hurts, and I’m a tough cookie. There are a lot of mums, younger and less tough than me that are getting the same comments. 

I know, because I’ve heard them. 

The actual mothering part of being a young mum is awesome. My kids are my best friends. It’s honestly the most fun I’ve had since I was a kid. Sure, it’s not all the matching gum boots I thought it’d be… but I love it. I wouldn’t change a thing.

Well one thing.

I’d change the way people perceive young mums. 

So, have I changed your perception? 

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